Frequently Asked Questions

1.  How far ahead of time should I book my officiant?

You should have your officiant booked at least 4-6 months before the wedding.  The sooner the better as dates fill up for everyone.  Occassionaly, there may be an opening at the last minute but it is risky to wait.

2.  When do I get to review the ceremony script?

We email the entire ceremony to you approximately 3-4 weeks before the wedding.  At that time you can make modifications.  All final approvals must be emailed back to us a minimum of 3 days before your rehearsal or ceremony.

3.  Can we write our own vows?

Absolutely!  A tip to writing your own vows, especially if you plan to memorize them, is to keep it short.  Generally one or two sentences can speak volumes when it comes from the heart.  If your vows are longer you should opt to either read them during the ceremony or repeat them after the officiant.  Any way you choose, please be sure your officiant has a copy of the vows that you write.

4.  I want a friend/relative to read a poem during the ceremony.

Just tell us where in the ceremony you would like the person to read a poem or scripture and provide us with what will be read.  We will incorporate it into your ceremony.  You can have readings, poems, vocals or instrumentals incorporated anyplace in your ceremony.  We just need to know where and the details.  There is no additional charge, however, it is encouraged that you keep these limited to 1-2 of each so not to overpower your ceremony with them.

5.  Can we meet with our officiant in person?

We are not opposed to meeting the couples that we marry.  We have found that, in general, meetings are difficult to arrange due to our schedules and yours.  In addition, it is often logistically impractical with many of our couples living more than 50 miles from us and the price of fuel soaring.  We provide unlimited phone and email support to answer any questions you may have or provide assistance with matters that involve your rehearsal or ceremony.  References are available upon request from previous couples and venues in which we have performed ceremonies.

6.  What will my officiant wear?

We generally dress business professional, ie; suit and tie or business suit.  We also have white or black robe available if you prefer a more traditional look.  If you are planning a themed wedding and would like your officiant to wear something 'less traditional' such as shorts, jeans, hawaiin, etc. please contact us with these requests.

7.  What types of ceremonies can I choose from?

You can choose Traditional, Contemporary, Interfaith, or Civil.  Our ceremonies can include children, and we even have one for second marriages.

8.  Will you help with our rehearsal?

Of course we will, if you want us to.  Remember to include this to your total mileage if you want us present for your rehearsal.  An option we have to save you some money is to email you diagrams of the processional, recessional and altar formations.  You simply choose the one from each that works best for your location and insert the names of everyone in the wedding.  Let us know your choices so that we know the order the day of the ceremony.  These diagrams enable you to conduct your rehearsal without us being there which could save you the cost of additional mileage.  If it is within your budget to have us attend and coordinate the rehearsal just let us know where and when.  Diagrams are only available with the Gold & Platinum packages and you will be allowed to choose a Tradition in place of our attendance at your rehearsal.

9.  What religion are you?

Our religion is Universal Life.  It is non-denomination, although we are familiar with many types of religous ceremonies.  We can incorporate many elements of specific religions into your ceremony if you wish or none at all.  We are Reverends.

11.  Should I give my Officiant a gratuity?

Typically, you should give gratuities to any service provider that you are pleased with.  Some service providers should be tipped simply out of etiquette.  Although we provide flat pricing options and do not expect a tip, they are always appreciated.  One thing that is always appreciated is a Thank You note or letter after your wedding.  This should be done for all of your service providers.

11.  What are Traditions?

Traditions, Rituals, are 'ceremonies within the ceremony'.  They include the Unity Candle, Blending of the Sands, the Rose ceremony, Jumping of the Broom, Medallion ceremony, etc.

12.  Should I invite my officiant to my rehearsal dinner and reception?

We always appreciate the invitation, however, we are often scheduled to be elsewhere.  We also understand that you generally have to pay per person for food and our absence at these dinners will save you a little more money.